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Hi folks! We’re Bob Schrupp and Brad Heineck, physical therapists, and— in our opinion—the two most famous physical therapists on the internet. Today’s Topic: Fast relief for back pain and spasms. These tips have worked for our patients, and we hope they help you too. If you're new to our channel, be sure to subscribe. We upload daily videos on how to stay healthy, fit, and pain-free. Don’t forget to join us on social media—especially Facebook, where we’ve hit over 1 million subscribers! We're so grateful to all of you and, to celebrate, we’ll be giving away prizes once a week for an entire year! Now, let’s dive into some tips to relieve back pain quickly. 1. Get Comfortable and Relax the Muscles When you're dealing with back pain or muscle spasms, the first step is getting comfortable to help relax the muscles and reduce pain. Posture plays a key role in this. Additionally, applying heat or cold can provide quick relief, depending on your situation. Back spasm

Hey everyone, I’m going to walk you through the essentials of hair care after a transplant. Let’s imagine it’s Day 10, or Week 2, after your procedure. You’ve successfully removed the scabs, and you’re starting to see the new hair on your scalp. Now what? I’m going to share the three key products I use to maintain my hair post-transplant: a shampoo, a spray, and an oil. The spray is optional, but oils are a must. Let’s break down why these products are important and how to use them effectively. 1. Shampoo Every time you wash your hair, you'll need a shampoo. I always go for a pH-neutral shampoo or baby shampoo. These are gentle and free from harsh chemicals, making them ideal for sensitive post-transplant scalps. Here’s how to use it: Gently massage the shampoo into your scalp for about 2 minutes. Let it sit for a while, then rinse it out using cool or lukewarm water. Avoid warm water, as it can damage your hair over time. Remember, no scratching or harsh rubbing—just g

In a world that often promotes the European standard of beauty, many Black women may feel like their beauty isn't celebrated enough. However, this is starting to change as more women recognize the magic of melanin. Melanin, a natural pigment, plays a significant role in determining skin color and offers many benefits, especially for Black women. What is Melanin? Melanin is a group of natural pigments found in most organisms. Everyone has melanin, regardless of whether they have light or dark skin. However, Black women tend to produce more melanin, which gives their skin its darker color. This pigment is essential not only for skin tone but also for protection from harmful UV rays. The Benefits of Melanin for Skin Health One of the remarkable benefits of melanin is its ability to slow down the aging process. Studies show that Black women's skin ages about 10 years slower than white women's skin. This is largely due to melanin’s ability to block UV rays, which can

Have you ever found yourself looking in the mirror and wondering why the skin on your face is noticeably darker than the rest of your body? You’re not alone, and the reasons behind this common phenomenon are multifaceted. In many cases, the explanation is quite simple: your face is exposed to more environmental factors than other parts of your body. However, in some instances, this could signal an underlying skin condition that requires attention. In this article, we’ll explore the various reasons for facial hyperpigmentation, from everyday causes like sun exposure to more complex medical conditions that may require a dermatologist’s expertise. 1. Sun Exposure and Melanin: Your Skin’s Natural Defense The most common reason for your face being darker than the rest of your body is its frequent exposure to the sun. Unlike areas like your arms or legs, which may be covered by clothing, your face is constantly exposed to ultraviolet (UV) radiation. This exposure stimulates the production of

Men are often seen as the more rational of the two sexes. However, if you expect a woman to be as rational as you, you may face frustration or prolonged singleness. Women, much like the ocean, experience cycles of emotions—ebbing, flowing, and changing like the tides and full moons. The key to a fulfilling relationship lies in accepting this. Once you recognize these emotional rhythms, you’ll find more peace and acceptance in your relationship. Today, we’re talking about happiness and how our expectations often don’t align with reality. If you expect a woman to act like a man, to display the same emotional stability as you, you're setting yourself up for disappointment. Similarly, I teach women not to expect men to be as emotionally expressive as they are. Balance Expectations in Relationships It's essential to level the playing field in relationships by understanding that men and women operate differently. Women shouldn’t expect men to react like their girlfriends, and vice ve

There’s nothing quite like dating or being in a relationship that reveals both the best and the worst of who we are. For many men, these experiences can lead to a series of harsh realizations—ones that aren’t always easy to confront, but are essential for growth. Today, I want to talk about three critical truths men often discover too late when it comes to women, relationships, and most importantly, themselves. 1. Dating Techniques, Tricks, and “Pick-Up” Tactics Won’t Help You You’ve seen them. YouTube gurus, online courses, male and female dating coaches all touting the latest “foolproof” dating techniques. They make it seem like mastering a few lines or moves will turn you into a modern-day Casanova. But here’s the real truth: none of it works . Not a bit. Women are incredibly intuitive. They can sense inauthenticity and insecurity from miles away. If you’re operating from a place of weakness, no amount of memorized lines or clever tricks will mask that. Women can tell when you’re pu

There’s nothing quite like dating or being in a relationship that reveals both the best and the worst of who we are. For many men, these experiences can lead to a series of harsh realizations—ones that aren’t always easy to confront, but are essential for growth. Today, I want to talk about three critical truths men often discover too late when it comes to women, relationships, and most importantly, themselves. 1. Dating Techniques, Tricks, and “Pick-Up” Tactics Won’t Help You You’ve seen them. YouTube gurus, online courses, male and female dating coaches all touting the latest “foolproof” dating techniques. They make it seem like mastering a few lines or moves will turn you into a modern-day Casanova. But here’s the real truth: none of it works . Not a bit. Women are incredibly intuitive. They can sense inauthenticity and insecurity from miles away. If you’re operating from a place of weakness, no amount of memorized lines or clever tricks will mask that. Women can tell when you’re pu

If you've been following this channel for a while, you know I’m a big fan of evolutionary psychology. It’s fascinating because much of it is grounded in science and research. Today, I want to share some concrete examples that might help you decode a woman’s behavior. You might have wondered, “Why is she acting like this?” Well, the answer is simple: she probably likes you. So, let’s break it down into six categories, with clear signs you should start paying attention to. 1. Hyper-Feminine Behavior Women often exhibit exaggerated feminine traits when they’re attracted to someone. Here are some specific behaviors to look out for: Soft or playful voice : She might speak in a higher pitch, or her tone might become softer when talking to you. She could even give you that flirty, giddy “hi” or “hello.” Playing the “weaker sex” role : She may ask for your help with tasks like opening a jar or killing a bug. It’s not that she can’t do it—she’s just allowing you to feel strong and protecti

When we talk about Stoicism, it’s not about projecting an image of perfection but about cultivating virtues like wisdom, courage, justice, and self-mastery. Stoicism invites us to dig deeper into life’s challenges and develop a more authentic, profound existence. When it comes to relationships, these stoic principles can make you incredibly attractive to women, even if they don’t consciously realize it. Let’s explore the five characteristics of Stoicism that can make you a magnet for high-quality women. 1. Wisdom: Attracting by Inner Strength At its core, Stoicism teaches us to seek wisdom, to go beyond surface-level thinking, and to be introspective. This philosophy encourages inner strength, allowing you to stay grounded and steadfast in the face of life's inevitable ups and downs. When applied to relationships, this means you become a person who attracts others with depth, integrity, and authenticity. Women are drawn to men who aren’t just looking for external validation but are

Marriage and relationships have always been hot topics of debate, especially when it comes to traditional roles versus modern expectations. Where do you stand in this discussion? Many might assume I lean more toward traditional roles because I often emphasize the importance of masculine and feminine dynamics in relationships. I truly believe relationships work best when these roles are naturally embraced. However, it's important to clarify: I don't believe women should be confined to outdated stereotypes like being barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen. I am an independent, self-sufficient woman who runs her own business. I believe that while traditional dynamics can create harmony, they must also adapt to modern realities. Marriage Through Generations: A Shift in Norms If we look back to the baby boomer generation, the societal pressure to get married before engaging in physical relationships was immense. Our parents’ generation often married young—around 20 to 24 years old—and

When it comes to attraction, I prefer a science-based approach. There are plenty of dating coaches offering personal opinions on what they find attractive, often clouded by bias. Today, I want to provide a fresh perspective grounded in evolutionary biology—specifically, what women have evolved to find appealing in men. Contrary to popular belief, women don’t sit around watching "The Bachelor" to decide what makes the perfect guy. In fact, many women don’t even fully understand what draws them to certain men. However, decades of research reveal that women’s preferences are neither random nor as confusing as they might seem. For all the men out there who believe women are confusing, the truth is that they simply haven’t considered the evolutionary reasons behind these preferences. As a woman, there are some things I’ve personally had to come to terms with—like the fact that men tend to prefer younger women. If you put me next to a 23-year-old, some men will have a clear prefere

Marriage, a centuries-old institution, has long been viewed as the ultimate commitment between two people. However, in today’s society, many couples question the necessity of formalizing their relationship with a legal certificate. Some believe that a strong, loving partnership does not need the validation of a marriage license. Yet, for those on the fence about tying the knot, the question arises: What are the real benefits of marriage, and do they outweigh the advantages of simply being in a long-term, committed relationship without a legal contract? Let’s explore both perspectives and unpack why marriage might still hold its relevance in modern times. 1. Marriage and Children: The Impact on Family Dynamics One of the most compelling reasons to consider marriage revolves around children. Research consistently shows that children raised in married households tend to fare better in various aspects of life. Marriage provides a sense of stability that can benefit a child’s emotional, psy

Today, I want to take some time to acknowledge and appreciate the men who have supported me, watched my videos, and joined in these important discussions. This message is especially directed to the women, but men will find this valuable too. I’m going to share nine personal revelations about men that, once I embraced them, completely transformed my relationships with men for the better. If women fully grasp these concepts, I’m confident that their relationships with men would become significantly simpler and more harmonious. To all the women reading this: This is not about blame or criticism. It’s about sharing insights that have worked for me. Take what resonates with you and leave the rest. My goal here is to provide a fresh perspective that could make your life with men easier and more fulfilling. 1. Men Would Rather Feel Unloved Than Disrespected While this may not seem groundbreaking to some, it’s crucial to understand that men prioritize respect above all else. In fact, a man wou

It's easy to look at Generation Z with concern, especially when we see them engaging with materialistic symbols like expensive cars, high fashion, or the latest tech. Some might wonder, "Where are their values?" This question isn't new—every generation has expressed concerns about the priorities of the next. In this case, some of the judgments directed at Gen Z may stem from a misunderstanding of their environment, influences, and how they express themselves. Materialism and Social Media's Role Let's start with a common observation: social media platforms are filled with young people capturing videos of luxury cars, designer clothes, and seemingly lavish lifestyles. For many older generations, this kind of behavior may seem superficial, reminiscent of the days when "flashy" clothing trends like rhinestone-covered jeans and spray tans were mocked. Today, it appears as though young people are obsessed with appearances and wealth, and social media only